Social Opportunity

When we decided to homeschool Miss Muffin, some of our relatives expressed concern that she would not have an opportunity for socialization. In the subsequent years, we have heard that thought expressed by friends, neighbors and complete strangers.

While traditional schools do offer opportunities for interaction, they are not the only place where socialization occurs. Informal play outside of school provides plenty of peer interaction. So do more formal activities such as scouting, youth groups and community sports groups. Extracurricular lessons such as dancing, karate and swimming classes provide additional opportunities, as do activities available through church groups. Summer offers additional opportunities for socialization. We are currently considering ummer camps in New York and Vermont, as well as some closer to our home. Camping is a valuable experience for many children and offers opportunities to become comfortable making new friends, while engaging in a host of fun activities.

In addition to opportunities available to all children, some communities provide special classes on a variety of subjects that are offered during regular school hours just for homeschoolers. Many homeschooling families form groups that meet regularly at parks and recreational facilities. They also go on field trips together and receive special tours and discounts. These groups have a far wider range of ages and abilities than found in most classrooms. The children learn to play well together and include everyone in the fun. It is rare for anyone to be left out and I have never heard of a single bullying incident. How many traditional schools can make that claim?